Cowboy Strong

 The Language of Lightness: Signaling, Not Controlling, with Your Reins Many new riders, and even some with experience, can fall into the trap of thinking of their reins as steering wheels – tools to physically force a horse in a particular direction or at a specific speed. However, truly effective horsemanship understands the reins as a far more nuanced communication tool. Think of them as a delicate language, a way to signal your intentions rather than control your horse through brute strength. When we rely on pulling and yanking, we often create resistance, confusion, and even fear in our equine partners. Instead, the goal is to develop a partnership where the horse responds to subtle cues, understanding the message conveyed through gentle contact and nuanced movements of the rider's hands. This approach fosters a more willing, responsive, and ultimately safer horse. Let's delve into some practical examples of how to achieve this "language of lightness" with your r...

 Finding Your Herd: The Monty Roberts Method - A Message of Hope for Veterans For many who have served our nation, the return home can bring a different kind of battle – an internal struggle against the invisible wounds of war. Post-Traumatic Stress Injury (PTSI), as Monty Roberts aptly calls it, can feel like an isolating and relentless fight. But know this: there is hope, and it can come in unexpected forms, often carried on the breath of a gentle nuzzle. The Monty Roberts Method, born from a profound understanding of equine communication, offers more than just a way with horses; it offers a path towards healing, trust, and a renewed sense of self for veterans navigating the complexities of PTSI. At its heart lies a powerful message: you are not broken, and connection without force is possible. Think of the wild mustang, the creature Monty Roberts so keenly observed. Its instincts are rooted in survival, often leading to flight and wariness. Yet, through patience, understanding, ...

 A Silent Lesson: What Horses Teach Us About Being Human The familiar saying, "Horses are easy, people are difficult," is more than a simple observation; it's an unspoken curriculum. It hints at a profound and gentle wisdom that horses. impart to those who take the time to listen. In the tranquil heart of Big Bear, where the rustle of pine needles and the quiet breath of a horse are often the only sounds, this wisdom feels palpable. The relationship with a horse, so often perceived as straightforward, offers a mirror in which we can see our own human complexities—and learn how to navigate them with greater grace. So, what are the silent lessons we can learn from horses that can make us better people? 1. The Power of Clear and Consistent Communication: A horse doesn't understand a half-hearted request or an ambiguous command. They respond to clarity, consistency, and a calm, confident energy. If our body language and tone of voice are at odds, they become confused and ...